|Getting out to see the things.|
As a couple Mr H and I always struggle on what I call the 'have or to go' problem.
He would rather have stuff.
I would rather go somewhere.
Right now he wants a surround sound system.
I would prefer a weekend to the snow.
He would like to renovate the bathroom.
I would rather flights to Singapore to stay with friends about to move there.
For his birthday he requests golf bags, bike gloves, (actually bike or golf anything) for my birthday I request tickets to the theatre or dinner somewhere we wouldn't usually go.
It can be the cause of much discussion.
Most times it doesn't really matter as we settle the argument by agreeing to save the money first and then decide between the choices. But it seems this savings bit rarely happens (damn you new car fuel thingo and battery, damn you creche fees, damn you dentist bill and optometrist bill).
Are you a Have spender or a Go spender?